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Quick Tip For Restoring Clarity & Sanity In Marriage

Updated: Jul 15, 2024

restoring clarity & sanity in marriage

Someone asked me, “What is on his (aka husband’s) paper?”


It’s kind of hard to explain from a modern point of view because these days, most of us go paperless! So, let me use my favourite Disney movie “Aladdin” to illustrate.


Imagine you are Princess Jasmine and your husband is Aladdin. You are sitting on Aladdin’s magic carpet. Yes, he is showing you “a whole new world”, but it is a world of his not yours! His magic carpet is flying you all over the place, up and down, east and south, west and north. You have no control over where his magic carpet brings you! It is so frightening that you can barely open your eyes. All you can do is to hold it very tight and scream your lungs off! That’s how it feels to be on his paper (or carpet!). Some describe it as a roller coaster ride. Indeed, it is!! You start to feel angry, sick, scared, hopeless and most likely powerless!! You are living in his “world” not yours. That’s why it is called “a whole new world”!


So, what is the best course of action to restoring clarity and sanity in marriage? Well, I believe Princess Jasmine will get off his carpet without anyone prompting. How about you? Would you still want to stay on that carpet?


If you’d like to learn how to stay on your paper or own your beautiful magic carpet instead of staying on his, look no further! Join me on a complimentary discovery call to create that whole new world for you!


 
 
 

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